There are many ways to dance with an aging parent who has dementia. Toni Luciani invited his 91 year old mother to join him using photography and the canvas of her aging to create art. The photographic results in the…
New arrivals to our caregiver support group confirm what’s being reported in the medical literature. Dementia in the land of aging parents has reached a tipping point and now become the overwhelming concern of 80-90% of our attendees.
The vast…
5 out of 5 stars
By JOHN MORRIS CANTILLON on July 12, 2016
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John’s wife reviewing here- I work in an assisted living community, and this is one of the best books I’ve seen for adult children…
Things Fall Apart
It’s a messy game being a caregiver of aging parents. Despite heroic efforts, things can fall apart at the worse possible time. Now what?
Shame Comes To Easy
Listen to this inspiring TED Talk by Brené Brown.…
Elderspeak was first coined in the 1980s by social scientists to describe what sounded like baby talk directed at older adults.
It is defined as a communication style based on stereotypes that older adults are less competent, so younger communication…
Everyone knows falls in older adults is bad news. They are the leading cause of fatal and non-fatal injuries in this age group. Every 22 minutes an older adult dies from a fall. That’s 66 deaths a day.
If they…
Although demanding and stressful, the problems of aging can be contained or eliminated. Lost prescriptions can be refilled. Unsafe staircases can be modified. Transportation for an unscheduled medical testing can be arranged. Solving problems means eliminating uncertainty and most caregivers…
I was asked to write an article about the context of caregivers of aging parents. What’s the scope and depth of their role? What are the issues they have to navigate every day?
I found it was easier to create…
“The real voyage of discovery consists not in seeking new landscapes but in having new eyes.”
Marcel Proust
As aging boomers are quickly discovering, the end game of being old is a non-linear quest to preserve control against overwhelming odds.…
In the communal world of pre-WWII, aging parents almost always moved in. It was expected because there was usually a local family network that closed ranks and helped take care of the elders.
In the dispersed world of Boomers and…